Saturday, April 28, 2012

Female Ejaculation


Female Ejaculation

An even greater mystery to most people than Female Orgasm is female ejaculation. Although we may have heard stories about friends who can ejaculate, or who have been with women who can ejaculate, many of us have never actually experienced it first hand. When asked to describe the ejaculations, responses are often quite similar, "It's liquid, it's clear, it's wet, and it squirts". Beyond this, the details have always been quite sketchy.
Let's begin by understanding what the elements of the ejaculate are. The four main ingredients are Glucose, prostatic acid phosphatase (an enzyme which is characteristic of the prostatic component of semen), urea and creatinine. The last two ingredients are commonly found in urine, but are in lower levels than in urine. So there is some urine in the ejaculate. Some studies conclude that in some women the ejaculate is more like urine, and in other women it more like a prostate fluid. Until this question is answered fully, its safest to assume that it is a bit of both. The quantity of ejaculate can range from a few drops, to a shower of it.
Where does the ejaculate come from? There are several theories on this, but remaining constant amongst all of them is that female ejaculation comes from G-spot Stimulation. When the G-spot is stimulated over a period of time, the spongy tissue that creates this area fills with fluid. Women who can ejaculate often hold back, thinking that it is urine. The exact source of the ejaculate is still debated by researchers, but it does appear to come out of the urethra (like urine) and/or nearby Skene's Gland, so that is where the confusion takes place.
So what's left? You might want to learn how to get someone to ejaculate, or how to do it yourself. Like exploring everything else new in your experience of sex, you should work towards it, but not put unnecessary stresses on yourself by making it your goal. Also, it is not known whether all women are able to ejaculate, so if you or your partner is unable to - don't worry, but perhaps keep trying once in a while. As you already know, the ejaculate comes from the urethra or Skene's Gland, so it feels a lot like urine.
Apart from those who love 'golden showers' (the fetish of urinating on, or being urinated on), many people do not feel comfortable enough to risk urinating on or around their partner. It may be a good idea to allow yourself or your partner some privacy to understand this function of their body; at the very least let your partner now that you are excited about it, not grossed out. That being said, great places to try this out include the shower or bathtub, in or near water, or on top of some old blankets that you don't mind getting wet.
If you have any comments about this article, or would like to share your personal experiences, please post below!


Submitted by Lovely2012 on Wed, 04/04/2012 - 20:47.
I've been reading some of these other posts and would like to say that squirting and an orgasm are completely two different things.
Before I sometimes felt like I had to pee and would get really uncomfortable during sex and I remember two occassions that it happened to me when I was just begining to have sex and I didn't know what was going on. I was actually embarassed and didn't know if I peed on my guy or what which probably led to me being self consious about the pee sensation during sex as I got older. I am able to orgasm multiple times during sex and have a high sex drive but nothing compares to squirting a good two times during sex.
I watched a porn and the girl squirted across the room so me being a nerd/freak I did some research cause I didn't believe it actually could happen. When I seen this was true and thought back to those other times I was determined to make it happen. I then began to just relax and decided that if I peed, hey the worst he could be is mad (my guy and I have been together four years now and we've done all type of freaky stuff anyway). I relaxed during sex and when I felt like I had to pee I didn't even focus on that just started amping myself up by talking dirty and getting really into it. The minute he pulled out thinking we were going to change position a waterfall of liquids came flying out and I lost vision in one eye. I didn't actually go blind but it felt wonderful I could of passed out.
Now when I orgasm I feel ripped off cause when you squirt you can keep going almost all night without the drained feeling and I rather have alot of mini orgasms and 2 good squirts, then one orgasm that puts me to sleep. I feel more satisfied this way too.
And to the dude who said it feels like she is pushing u out that is only because a female cannot squirt when something is inside. Well that is how it is for me cause now that we have experimented a lil I feel almost like an expert. When your lady gets that pee sensation don't just stop there keep pumping, fingering, or whatever it is your doing for another 6 or 7 minutes and pull out really quick, that is how you get a squirt to reach across the room.
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No orgasms when i squirt

Submitted by ejtom on Wed, 03/14/2012 - 04:30.
I have been seeing a new guy for the last 3 months and he is the first person that has been able to make me squirt. It is taking a while to accept this and get use to it, as like everyone else, it feels like i am peeing on him, and the wet feeling is just really uncomfortable and hard to get use to... (I am working on this tho).
However, i am a little jealous as i am not experiencing an orgasm when i squirt. I mean, it feels good, but that is it... No earth shattering sensations, not even a little! I do have orgasms when my clitoris is stimulated so i do know i can, but i have never been able to without. I feel like i am missing out on the best part of this happening as all i am getting is wet and nothing else.
Can someone please help me and tell me if there is anything i can do to help bring on a orgasm when i squirt?
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Happened to me

Submitted by kegzilla on Mon, 03/05/2012 - 05:51.
My girlfriend was riding my face , I kept eating her out and all of a sudden it felt like someone sprayed me three times. My head was engulfed as she squirted all over me. She was embarrassed a little bit as she said that had never happened before. Then about a week later she did it to me again this time we were in the drive through position and she squirted all over my head again. I admit that I kind of enjoy when she squirts, because I know she is loving it and second it usually leads to a nice shower for us, I love the feeling of a woman washing my hair.
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Orgasm worries

Submitted by TRW12 on Mon, 02/06/2012 - 02:17.
Whenever i please my gf to the point that she has her orgasm she soaking wet. I know this is goo for me and her ;D but whenever i eat her out or finger her and she orgasms she immediately wants to stop; she says she immediately gets turned off after orgasming and i dont want to make her orgasm during foreplay and then not have sex :/ I realy dont know what to think of this and could do with some help. Were about to have sex for the first time and she says itll be to painful to orgasm :/ someone please help!!!!!!!
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Yeah! My Girlfriend is the

Submitted by tommygunn76 on Sat, 04/21/2012 - 08:42.
Yeah! My Girlfriend is the same way bro. She is all into sex and wild,until she cums. Then its really lame sex. I am not to sure what to do, it is really bugging me.
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Your GF

Submitted by RAScorpioPassionSQTR on Fri, 02/10/2012 - 23:49.
Wow she really wants to STop after one orgasm, is she Nuts or maybe she's just scared & very Naive! I am a very seasoned multi-orgasmic woman & I still cant get enough & Want more! Maybe she will change in time...hopefully or she doesnt know what shes missing! Talk to her about why she feels that way, maybe she has some kind of past hang Ups about Enjoying her body & sex. Good Luck TRW12
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RAScorpio's comment

Submitted by LBK on Sat, 04/21/2012 - 23:49.
The comments by RAScorpio are good observations. Many women have been programmed not to truly enjoy their sex becasue of religion, stigma of being labeled "slutty", or for just not learning about their own physiology in our American, prudish school systems and homes. Give your girlfriend time to learn about herself and talk to her about why she loses her drive after squirting/orgasming. You'll find most sexual dysfunctions are mental, not physical. Good luck!
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A few things

Submitted by Goof on Wed, 11/09/2011 - 08:27.
I've recently gotten into a relationship with a new girl who squirts. I've had plenty of girlfriends in the past who orgasm the normal way but none that squirt. This new girl says she cums, that she's having multiple orgasms but im a bit skeptical. In the past it was normal for a build-up to the typical, convulsing, shuddering orgasm at which point the girls done, her clits super sensitive and its all good. Not so much with this girl. This one seems to squirt again and again and again. We can do this sometimes for hours until she gets too sensitive to touch and her legs are shacking and she's quite happy. What seems to be lacking though is that big build up to a hard orgasm that finishes her off in one shot. It's more like the culmination of a lot of little multiple ones, i dont know and im worried that she isnt actually coming. That the squirting obviously feels great to her but she might be missing out.
I noticed below a girl mention she squirted and it felt great but wasn't an orgasm. Are there other girls who understand the sensation of both and can elaborate?
I'd also like to add a few things to the topic for those interested. My GF will contract so hard when she squirts she will in certain positions, regularly push me out of her. So hard in fact that it has on occasions pushed me out as i push in and bent my dick, which is quite uncomfortable lol.
Also that the real hard, spraying, high volume squirts tend to come from real light but very rapid clit stimulation using all 4 fingers. Or combine that with some hard finger penetration (like all 4, almost fisting). Even smaller quantities from nipple pinching during foreplay. Im a very lucky guy :D
Also about 80% of the "squirt" porn ive seen is rubbish. It's just woman pissing halfway across a room.
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You need a new perspective...

Submitted by GoinDownTown69 on Tue, 11/22/2011 - 17:03.
Squirting is an orgasm. It is, however, very different than a regular clitoral orgasm. Women can squirt multiple times. It's the stimulation that fills up the skeene's gland. So when she squirts and empties the gland, it certainly isn't over. She can be stimulated some more and have the gland fill back up for another squirting episode. Therefore, thinking that you can make her squirt "All of it at once, hence the hard build up and finish her off in one shot" mentality isn't going to work here. Just learn your woman, what works to build her up, how to hold her on the edge without cumming for a while, then back off a bit, then build her up again and if you feel like it make her squirt. Just enjoy the fact that she has connected the dots and can squirt and can have different types of orgasms and enjoy giving them to her. If you ask any woman that squirts, which orgasm is better or more intense, most of them have a hard time telling you an "Exact" answer. They just simply say, It just feels different. Some can differentiate, but most can't and it just feels different to them from a clitoral but both are intense and very enjoyable. This should be enough for you, right? I mean, if you think about it, why would you want her to cum once and be done? Women have the gift of multiple orgasms! Just roll with it!
About the contracting. Most women contract very hard like that when squirting. Most prefer you to pull out when she is squirting. It just makes it much easier for the muscles to contract as there is nothing getting in the way to stop them from contracting fully. So on your part, you should be anticipating the contractions and be prepared to pull out when she's squirting. Help her out, make it more enjoyable to her. :)
You can also try this to get those high volume squirts instead of the fingers:
Pull your cock out when she is close to squirting and then slap your cock on her clit like you are spanking her clit with your cock. They also tend to like the sensation of her pussy getting "spanked" by a cock when she is worked up. Some women even like a hand spanking her pussy if she is worked up. Be prepared to have this action rejected as not all women like this but a lot do if they are excited enough. You will have to spank fairly quickly. You don't have to spank her hard like it's punishment or anything, just a good quick firm tapping will do! I like the sound it makes anyway LOL but it's even better when the result is a squirt! :P
And for all you guys that haven't tasted squirt yet, give it a try! It's the best nectar on planet earth! YUM!
Now that I have typed all this out, I think I'm going to go take a shower! ;)
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its possible that she could

Submitted by wantstoknow on Wed, 11/09/2011 - 14:11.
its possible that she could be having orgasms. i sometimes have both what your gf gets and a normal orgasm. they both feel great. just remember all women and girls squirt and orgasm differently. its there own experience. i hope that helped.
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help???

Submitted by wantstoknow on Wed, 11/09/2011 - 05:20.
i don't know if i squirted. i was rubbing my clit and i orgasmed when i got done rubbing my clit my bedsheets were wet and i had some odorless liquid on my hand. did i squirt?
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Like the article says, you

Submitted by leeann5100 on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 06:12.
Like the article says, you need to stimulate your G spot. Clitoral only just isn't going to do it. For those girls who want to try, then this is how I do it.
If you really want to try it then get a dildo, a clitoral vibrator, some lube, a towel, and some alone time. The alone time is essential because you need to focus on you and not the other person in the room. Lay down on a comfortable surface with the towel under your butt. Start by gently fucking yourself with the dildo in order to get yourself relaxed inside. If the dildo vibrates then all's the better. Once you are breathing heavy and relaxed then raise your legs up where your vaginal opening is facing up. If you don't like your cervix being bumped then be careful how deep you penetrate. Keep fucking yourself until right before you orgasm. Add the vibrating clit stimulator and continue. When you are on the peak of orgasming, push with your vagina and urethral muscles as hard as you can while continuing with the dildo and vibrator.
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Great advice. When you do

Submitted by photoguy on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 15:03.
Great advice. When you do get that alone time make sure there's no distractions and no chance of any interruptions so you can focus on the full enjoyment of the moment.
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Usually after the kids go to

Submitted by leeann5100 on Thu, 10/06/2011 - 13:16.
Usually after the kids go to bed and my husband is at work.
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I can't squirt

Submitted by sweetcheeks93 on Sun, 09/25/2011 - 00:12.
I want to squirt but I can't. I don't know how. I have masturbated by touching my clit and I orgasmed and after I feel like I need the toliet. I feel left out if I can't squirt. How can I squirt?
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squirting

Submitted by 517ali on Fri, 09/02/2011 - 19:41.
Squirting, or shejaculation as my husband calls it, is so fun. I had ithappen for the first time when we weere having anal sex. We were doing it doggy style, I was fingering myself, and out came four squirts, each squirt lasting about a second each. Since it was my first squirting experience, I ask him if he came, he said no. After sex I looked it up on-line and there it was. I don't squirt everytime, but enjoy it when I do.
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informative site

Submitted by basbm on Sat, 08/20/2011 - 16:44.
This is very informative site. All about sex.
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sqirting

Submitted by laylee on Sat, 08/20/2011 - 05:05.
I squirt, but I don't feel like I have to pee. I tried to urinate on my partner and couldn't. I believe it is a rare thing, and it's not urine!
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it's not urine

Submitted by promiskuizm on Mon, 04/02/2012 - 22:23.
texture and flavor of a different - even when spurts unutterably much
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Confused

Submitted by Sexychick12345 on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 16:29.
So I think I squirted the other day for the first time liquid came out as I was fucking myself with a (clean) mascara tube. It didn't smell like pee but it didn't realy squirt out of my either..it kinda just dribbles out and down right benith me..is this normal for the first time? It wasn't alot either it was onl a couple of drips..also I didn't pull out when I came so does that effect it? Should I pull out next time? Any advice would be great thanks!
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Squirting

Submitted by screamer on Sun, 09/25/2011 - 21:47.
Wow! I experienced this for the first time the other day. I had a dido just sitting in my pussy and a vibrator on my clit at the same time. I felt a shaking sensation all over my body as I got so excited. Allof a sudden I felt this urge to push as the dildo came flying out of my pussy followed by this fluid that flowed down my cheeks onto the bed. I like it so much that I repeated it three times until my clit was so sensitive I could not do it anymore. I just wonder if my husband was inside me when I felt the urge to push, but didn't pull him out if I would still have the orgasmic fluid come out??
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I've pushed so hard that

Submitted by leeann5100 on Wed, 10/05/2011 - 06:14.
I've pushed so hard that I've actually pushed my husband's cock out of me.
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Hi I was just wondering

Submitted by Justwonderin on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 08:46.
Hi I was just wondering what's the difference between getting wet and squirting? Does it have to be literally squirting when it happens? I've realized that i produce some clear liquid when my bf goes down on me but I used to think that was just me getting really wet.
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It might be you just getting

Submitted by Sexychick12345 on Thu, 08/04/2011 - 16:32.
It might be you just getting wet..normally you can tell when you cum..for me I get the feeling that im gonna pee..if you finger yourself and hit your gspot you'll probably know what I mean..just try it!
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Question Squirting vs pee?

Submitted by ceecee35 on Sat, 06/18/2011 - 22:26.
Seeing a new guy for the last two months and have made fun in the bedroom. The other night we had a few beers and we both always use the bathroom before hand. We were having quite the foreplay and then I got on top of him cowboy style and leaned back and warm fluid came out of me. I was like, "what was that"? and he thought I pee'd, and I said no I didn't pee. I don't think I pee'd. He told me to go to the bathroom and joked, oh you already did. I did go to the bathroom and pee'd a lot had a full bladder. The color was clear and no smell.
So I want to know really what it was? I don't think I pee'd but it didn't appear to be cum. But I from time to time have had an issue with sneezing and leaking urine when that happens so now I am weirded out.
Any thoughts?
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squirting vs pee

Submitted by Vonae on Tue, 06/21/2011 - 05:25.
To me it sounds like you squirted. I've been doing it for many years so I know exactly how you feel. The first time for me was also a little weird. I thought it was pee too, but when it started happening more and more I realized it wasnt. Its always involuntary, unlike urinating(unless you've reached the point where you can't hold it anymore). And unlike pee which is a steady stream, when I squirt it's always a sudden rush that lasts like 2 seconds. It all just comes out at once like someone opended up a flood gate. So yeah, you're definitely squirting sooo....CONGRATS! Not too many of us exist ;)
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Messy messy

Submitted by hornatoadslittlelady on Thu, 06/09/2011 - 14:29.
I have a new boyfriend and we have been having sex now for about 2 months. I have had many partners in the past so this was really crazy to me. One day about 3 weeks ago, we were mid session and we switched up with me on top. I had see squirting before on porn but never thought that it would ever happen to me. Well, the only thing I can think is that his penis was rubbing me the right way because I starting getting so wet and secreting a thin fluid that didn't smell of anything. So much that it ran down my thighs and was spraying all over us every time I bounced up and down on him. I knew it couldn't be urine, I pee every time before we have sex and after. Unfortunately, no real orgasm. But my boyfriend LOVED it and now every time we have sex he immediately puts a towel down and picks me up and puts me on top of him. LOL
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Squirt squirt

Submitted by CookieDoh on Mon, 05/02/2011 - 06:49.
I was with my boyfriend one time and we were feeling kinda horny and we didn't want to risk sex, but we ended up masturbating together. He fingered me too, it felt great~ x3
I think what made me squirt for the very first time was that since he has three vibrating tongue piercings and he was licking my clit made me squirt. I thought I pee-ed on his face and it was really embarrassing for me D: He didn't seem to mind at all. But after a week or two we decided to do 69 (Yes we're taking steps till the actual thing ^//^;)he couldn't get me to squirt that time, his piercings were even vibrating Dx
Do you think we should stick to just him licking me or find something new? D: Neither of us don't get why I can't squirt again...
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