செக்ஸ் அவ்ளோதானா.....

செக்ஸ். இதன் ஆரம்பமும், முடிவும் யாருக்கும் தெரியாது. போகும் வரை போகும், நீளும் வரை நீளும், இதற்கு இதுதான் முடிவு என்று எதுவும் இல்லை. இதை உணர்ந்தால் செக்ஸை சுதந்திரமாக, சவுகரியமாக, மகிழ்ச்சிகரமாக அனுபவிக்க முடியும், ரசிக்க முடியும்-எந்த வயதிலும்.சில பெண்களுகளுக்கு, ஆண்களும் கூடத்தான், மெனோபாஸ் காலகட்டத்தை எட்டியதும் செக்ஸ் இனி அவ்வளவுதான், எல்லாம் முடிந்து விட்டது என்று எண்ணிக் கொள்கிறார்கள். ஆனால் உண்மை அப்படி இல்லை. மெனோபாஸ் வந்தாலும் கூட செக்ஸை முன்பு போலவே மகிழ்ச்சிகரமாக, ரம்யமாக அனுபவிக்க முடியும் என்கிறார்கள் மருத்துவர்கள். இன்னும் சொல்லப் போனால், முன்பை விட சுதந்திரமாக,

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இல்லறம் இனிக்க....

மனிதராக பிறந்த ஒவ்வொருவரும் ஒரு குறிப்பிட்ட பருவத்தில் திருமணம் செய்து கொள்ளவேண்டும் என்று அனைத்து மத சாஸ்திரங்களும் தெரிவிக்கின்றன. திருமணம் என்பது அர்த்தமுள்ள வாழ்க்கையின் ஆரம்பம் எனலாம். திருமணம் என்பது இருவர் மனமொத்து மகிழ்ச்சியாக வாழ்ந்து குழந்தைகள் பெற்று மகிழ்ச்சியை இன்னும் அதிகரிக்கச் செய்வது. இந்த மகிழ்ச்சி என்பது பணமோ, புகழோ , அழகோ, படிப்போ, நல்ல குணமோ, வீரமோ ,காமமோ ஏதோ ஒன்றை அடிப்படையாக கொண்டிருக்கலாம். ஆனால் திருமணம் என்றாலே இன்றைய இளைஞர்கள் மிகவும் யோசிக்கின்றனர். திருமணம் செய்து கொண்டவர்களும், `உனக்கு என்னப்பா நீ சுதந்திரப்பறவை, நான் குடும்பஸ்தன்’ என்று சலிப்பு வசனம் பேசுகிறார்கள். இளம்பருவத்தினர்

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பார்ட்னரின் செக்ஸ் உணர்வைத் தூண்டி உறவுக்கு அழைப்பது எப்படி?

மயக்கும் மாலைப் பொழுதே நீ போ போ, இனிக்கும் இன்ப நிலவே நீ வா வா என்று நீங்கள் மட்டும் பாடிக் கொண்டிக்க, உங்களவர் அது குறித்த சிந்தனையே இல்லாமல் 'புக்' எதையாவது படித்துக் கொண்டிருக்கிறாரா...... கவலைப்படாதீர்கள், அப்படி இருப்பதாலேயே மட்டும் அவருக்கு செக்ஸ் உறவில் நாட்டம் இல்லை என்று அர்த்தம் இல்லை.

நாமதான் ஆரம்பிக்கனுமா, அங்கிருந்து வரட்டுமே என்ற எண்ணத்தினால் கூட அப்படி இருக்கக் கூடும். இல்லாவிட்டால் ஏதாவது தயக்கமாகக் கூட இருக்கலாம். எனவே, பார்ட்னரின் மனதில் என்ன உள்ளது என்பதை சின்ன சின்ன சில்மிஷங்கள் மூலம் நாம் அறிந்து உறவுக்குள் புகலாம்.

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உயிரைக் காப்பாற்றிய முலைகள்! சிலிர்க்கும் பெண்

விபத்து ஒன்றிலிருந்து ஒரு பெண்ணை அவரது முலைகளே காப்பாற்றிய ஆச்சரிய சம்பவம் ஒன்று இடம்பெற்றுள்ளது. பலத்த மழை பெய்து கொண்டிருந்த போது லிசா என்ற பெண் காரில் வீட்டுக்குச் சென்றுள்ளார்.

குறித்த கார் கட்டுப்பாட்டை இழந்து இன்னொரு வாகனத்துடன் கடுமையாக மோதியுள்ளது.

நுரையீரல் சிதைந்த நிலையிலும், விலா எலும்பில் நான்கு வெடிப்புக்களுடனும், மூக்கு உடைந்த நிலையிலும் தீ அணைப்பு வீரர்களால் காப்பாற்றப்பட்டு மருத்துவமனையில் சேர்க்கப்பட்டார்.

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மேலாடையின்று நடுத்தெருவில் நடனமாடிய பெண்கள்!

மேலாடையின்றி பெண்கள் தெருவில் நடனமாடிய கண்கொள்ளாக் காட்சியே இது.. சிலி நாட்டின் Valparaiso நகரத்தில் இடம்பெற்ற காணிவெல் திருவிழாவையே நீங்கள் பார்க்கின்றீர்கள்.

வருடாந்த திருவிழாவில் திறந்த மார்புடன் நின்றிருந்த பெண்களுக்கு ஓவியர்கள் தங்கள் திறமைகளை திறம்பட நிரூபித்தார்கள். பெண்களின் மார்பில் வித விதமான ஓவியங்களை வரைந்தார்கள்.

உள்ளூர் பார்வையாளர் ஒருவர் கருத்துத் தெரிவிக்கையில், பெண்களின் உள்ளாடைகளைத் தயாரிக்கும் தொழிற்சாலைக்கு ஏதும் ஆகி விட்டதோ என்று தான் நினைத்ததாக பகிடியாகக் கூறினார். இந்த ஆண்டு திருவிழாவானது சிறந்த கல்வி பெறுவதற்கும், சகிப்புத்தன்மை, இனப்பாகுபாட்டுக்கு எதிராக அர்ப்பணிக்கப்பட்டிருக்கின்றது.

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பாருங்கள் சிரியுங்கள் !!! -5

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இது எப்படி இருக்கு???

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பெண் டாக்டர் நடத்தும் செக்ஸ் கல்வி - வீடியோ

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Tantra sex- List of Exercises and Practices

Chapter 1: Relationship as Spiritual Practice
Important of Relationship Exercise
Sorting Our Your Priorities
Chapter 2: Creating Love
Creating a Relationship Vision
Step 1: Individual Desires
Step 2: Your Shared Pictire
Step 3: A Symbolic Rendering
Creative Tension Exercise
Step 1: Your Relationship Vision
Step 2: Your Current Reality

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Tantra sex - Chapter 12: Sexual Play

“A kiss is a lovely trick designed by nature to
stop speech when words become superfluous.”
—Ingrid Bergman

Tantric loving is serious business. After all it brings you face to face
with profound issues such as: “How do I welcome God?” and, “Am I
living my life to my full potential?” Because it deals with weighty matters,
you might assume that Tantra is solemn, even grave. You may also
suspect that even though Tantra includes sex, because it is “spiritual”
sex, it is likely sedate—a polite sexuality with much earnest eye-gazing
and not lots of juicy bits. Well, you would be partly right. There is much
about Tantric loving that is thoughtful and decorous, but the Tantric
scope encompasses all, uniting seemingly disparate polarities into an
integrated whole, so reverence and raucousness, piety and playfulness
are equal partners in your lover’s bed. You engage in all sorts of
wild and wonderful acts to build your sexual charge then focus your
thought to elevate that charge, thus connecting your animal body
with your ethereal spirit. In this expansive view, you push your limits,
allowing and encouraging each other to be imaginative, vulnerable, and bold.
Perhaps you feel you aren’t innately daring or sexually adventurous—
well, the best suggestion we have ever gotten for this self-sabotaging
argument is: Make it up! You might not think you are particularly wild
but, ask yourself, if you were, what would you do? Then do it. You may
surprise yourself, and your lover, with your ingenuity. Use the suggestions
in this chapter to kick-start your creative process. An effective
approach is to each assume responsibility for investigating a different
activity and then share what you have learned. Select something that
appeals to you and plan how you will include it in your next Tan
date. Take turns from week to week or both pick one treat to contribute.
Remember to be flexible as you create your scenario—you are
simply setting the stage and providing the necessary props for an inspired
improvisation.
Location
In Chapter 10, we outlined elements of creating a sacred space for
your Tantric lovemaking. Most likely your love temple will usually be at
home and probably in your bedroom, but a change of scene can add
excitement and mystery. If you have the privacy, move around from

by intriguing sauces. Whatever your method, be sure to give yourself
room to room, christening your tables and countertops, rugs and window

seats, infusing every part of your home with the electrical charge of your
blissful connection. When our house was being built, we would slip in at
night and consecrate specific areas with our fiercely magical mating, until
we had covered the entire building. We have continued the practice,
regularly blessing every delightful nook and cranny through our ceremonial
sexuality. You can feel the love as soon as you step in our door.
Occasionally making the shift to a locale away from home injects the
spice of newness into your sacred sex time. Slip off to a nearby motel for
a lovers’ afternoon rendezvous. Set up a love nest in a tent in your backyard or trade apartments with your friends for the weekend.
Food and Drink
Sex and food are inseparable, or they should be. Palate-pleasing
food and drinks are essential elements of extended loving sessions. For
one thing, you need them to keep up your stamina, but besides that,
their aromas, flavors, textures, and appearance nourish your senses. They
also remind you to be grateful for the many bounties of the earth.
Cooking is an erotic experience for us, so sometimes preparing food
together is part of our sexual play. Eating definitely is: tenderly feeding
each other tasty finger foods; slurping succulent tidbits off each other’s
bodies; enjoying a formal candlelight dinner with amorous interludes
between courses; sharing sacramental dishes during reverent ceremonies.
If you are not into cooking, order in, buy some frozen gourmet
specials, or go minimalist with raw fruits, nuts, and vegetables escorted

the sensual delights that can accompany fueling your body.
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meat, and wine—and sexual union as sacramental symbols of the
elements. Grains represent earth, fish-water, wine-fire, meat-air, and
coitus-space—the all-pervasive element that is part of all the others. I
traditional Tantra, various intoxicants were also employed: alcohol and
drugs, such as marijuana. They were included as enhancements to
lovemaking—aids to alter consciousness, not escape from reality. M
consumption of wine or spirits over an evening of high-octane sex
is pleasurable and manageable; too much dulls your senses. The sam
restraint applies to eating—not to your enjoyment of the food—but to
the amount you consume….

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Tantra sex- Chapter 11: Erotic, Relaxing, Healing Touch

“Touch-A, Touch-A, Touch-A, Touch Me”
—Music and lyrics by Richard O’Brien,
from Rocky Horror Picture Show
“And when I touch you
I feel happy inside
It’s such a feeling that my love
I can’t hide”
—“I Want To Hold Your Hand,”

music and lyrics by John Lennon
and Paul McCartney
Close your eyes and feel:
Sensitive, knowing hands firmly kneading the ache from
your shoulders.
Soft, moist lips gently nuzzling the excitable nape of your
neck.
Strong, loving arms enfolding your grief-shaken body.
Tantalizing fingertips tracing fire up your eager inner
thighs.

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Tantra sex- Chapter 10: Planning and Ritual in Sacred Loving

“The very best impromptu speeches are the
ones written well in advance.”
—Ruth Gordon

Your intention is the key to transforming regular sex into sacred
sex. Intention affects emotions, energy, and consciousness, which govern
how you perceive your lovemaking. You can be engaged in exactly
the same actions with your body—deep kissing, hungry licking, wild
thrusting—but have vastly different experiences depending on your intention.

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Tantra sex- Chapter 9: Freeing the Female Orgasm

“When mom found my diaphragm, I told her it
was a bathing cap for my cat.”
—Liz Winston

Women are blessed with an extraordinary capacity for physical pleasure.
When we are fully awakened sexually, we can experience a veritable
cornucopia of orgasms—genitally and beyond. We have even got
a special body part, the clitoris, whose only function is to make us writhe
and moan with delight. Why is it then, when nature has kindly endowed

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Tantra sex- Chapter 8: Ejaculation Mastery and Male Multiple Orgasm

The chicken and the egg were lying in bed one
night, when one turned to the other and said,
‘Well, now we know.’”
—Unknown

One of the best-kept secrets of our time is that men (not just women)
can be multi-orgasmic. Not only can a man have several orgasms during
one session of lovemaking, but he also can do it and still have lots of
energy and desire. “Oh sure,” you may be thinking, “maybe Superman
or super stud, but not me.” Actually most “ordinary” men can, you can—
the key is learning to separate orgasm from ejaculation. Because ejaculation
follows orgasm so closely—within a split second—most people
think they are one and the same, but they are two distinct phenomena.

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Tantra sex- Chapter 7: Energy Delights

“Ecstasy is our very nature.”
—Osh''

From the moment of our first Tantric lovemaking experience, we
knew we were dealing with something beyond our regular understanding
of our physical bodies. We experienced what we could only describe
as an energetic phenomenon. This was foreign to us not only in its manifestation

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Tantra sex- Chapter 6: Be Here Now

“Many thousand kisses have we strewn along
our way,
each fresh as the first,
more powerful than the last.”
—Pala Copeland

Although we have made love at least 2,000 times in our years together,
our lovemaking is fresh and immediate, because each time we
make love we are fully in the moment. With 100 percent of our senses
zeroed in on exactly what is going on at that moment, we are able to see
and feel everything anew. By learning to be here now, you too can

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Tantra sex- Chapter 5: Mastery and Surrender in the Art of Love

“Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at
all. Security is mostly a superstition. It does not
exist in nature.”
—Helen Keller
“Those who restrain desire, do so because
theirs is weak enough to be restrained.”
—William Blake
“I regret to say that we of the FBI are
powerless to act in cases of oral-genital
intimacy, unless it has in some way obstructed
interstate commerce.”
—J. Edgar Hoover

Control
People love to be in control; it makes them feel safe and secure.
Very few are attracted to what may be perceived as its opposite—being
out of control. Being out of control can be scary, frustrating, even terrifying,

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Tantra sex - Chapter 4: Sex and Spirit – Reuniting Heaven and Earth

“Those who realize true wisdom, rapt within
this clear awareness, see me as the universe’s
origin, imperishable. All their words and all
their actions issue from the depths of worship;
held in my embrace, they know me as a woman
knows her lover.”
—The Bhagavad Gita
“There are two kinds of love. Our love. God’s
love. But God makes both kinds of them.”

—Jenny, age 4
As children, we were both intensely passionate about God. Raised
as a Roman Catholic, Al found a spiritual home in the church, devoutly
performing the duties of altar boy and praying to be a priest some day.
Every Sunday, with her parents and siblings, Pala absorbed the Christian
message at St. Columba’s Anglican Church. There, in adolescent

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Tantra sex- Chapter 3: Celebrating the Differences

“Sometimes I wonder if men and women really
suit each other. Perhaps they should live next
door, and just visit now and then.”
—Katharine Hepburn

“You like potato and I like potaeto,
You like tomato and I like tomaeto;
Potato, potaeto, tomato, tomaeto!
Let’s call the whole thing off!”
—“Let’s Call the Whole Thing Off,” music and
lyrics by George and Ira Gershwin.
“Love is grand; divorce is a hundred grand.”

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Tantra sex - Chapter 2: Creating Love

“For one human being to love another; that is
perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks, the
ultimate, the last test and proof, the work for
which all other work is but preparation.”
—Rainer Maria Rilke
“Let’s fall in love,
Why shouldn’t we fall in love?
Our hearts are made of it
Let’s take a chance
Why be afraid of it?”
—“Let’s Fall In Love,” 1933

Words by Ted Koehler, music by Harold Arlen
Modern Western society adores falling in love. Songs—from harddriving
hip hop to crooners’ ballads—extol its pleasures and passions;
movies and plays entice us with its mystery; magazines and books give
us advice on when, where, and how to do it; and advertising of all

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Soul Sex Tantra Chapter 1: Relationship as Spiritual Practice

“Someday, after we have mastered the winds,
the waves, the tide and gravity, we shall harness
for God the energies of love. Then, for the
second time in the history of the world, man
will have discovered fire.”
—Pierre Teilhard de Chardin

Our extraordinary sexual pleasure and intense mystical connection
continued to grow as we went deeper into our Tantric practice. We progressed
steadily, but unevenly, along our sacred sex path—sometimes
making great strides forward, other times falling back. Although our
personal vitality and individual learning capacity affected our headway,
the most noticeable influence came from the state of our relationship.
When we were in sync emotionally and feeling good about each other,
we could often reach the heights of bliss. If issues arose between us or if
one of us was preoccupied with something else, the magic would not
happen.
Tantra stresses the importance of conscious awareness and intention,
as well as opening your heart. As we focused on becoming more
aware, we saw that our lives outside the bedroom had a huge impact on
what occurred in it. We realized that if we wanted to connect totally in
our Tantric sex, we had to make our relationship the best it could be—
all the time. After talking it over carefully, we decided to make our
relationship the most important thing in our lives. The only thing of
greater importance is our individual connection with the Divine, but
because our relationship is also our spiritual path, this does not create a
conflict. It is through our relationship that we come to God and give
love to the world. Putting our intention into practice—daily remembering
and acting on our importance to each other—visibly accelerated
our mastery of Tantric skills. As you commence your own sacred loving
journey, your best possible starting point rests in a relationship that is your
top priority.
When we say our relationship is the most important thing, we mean
that it takes precedence over our work, our children, our family and
friends, our community, and our own needs to control or to be right.
This does not mean that those other things are not important to us or
that we ignore them. We are not promoting ego à deux, wherein we
become so absorbed with one another that we lose concern for anyone
or anything else. On the contrary, when we give more to each other, we
have more to give the world. When our relationship is strong and vital,
all aspects of our lives benefit because we have more patience, stamina,
and enthusiasm.

How Important Is Your Relationship?
“Time is a created thing. To say, ‘I do not have time’ is
like saying, ‘I do not want to.’”
—Betty Elliot
Ninety-three percent of Americans say they hope to form a lasting,
happy union with one person.1 Perhaps you also long for a fulfilling
relationship. If you do, what really matters is not what you say or what
you think you believe, but what your behavior demonstrates. Many
couples tell us, “Oh yes, our relationship is the most important thing,”
and in the next breath add, “but we cannot find time for each other in
our busy lives.” Careers, children, community, and individual needs may
often seem overwhelming in their immediate demands for time and
attention. All too frequently, the primary relationship takes second place.
As we explore these aspects of life that can draw attention away from
your relationship, do you recognize any of your own behaviors?
Career: There is no getting around having to pay the rent. Most of us do
have to work to earn a living, and career choices are undeniably some
of the most important decisions we make. However, is your career more
important than your relationship?
People begin their careers wanting to be successful, to achieve advancement,
and gain recognition. Competition with others can be severe,
even ruthless. Therefore, you work very hard, putting in lots of hours.
Perhaps there is stress involved, and you may become anxious and
worried and begin to take it out on your partner. Alternatively, maybe
your creative juices are flowing, and you are so wrapped up in the process
that you cannot let it go. You begin to think about your work all
the time and start to bring it home with you. On the other hand, perhaps
you are a small business entrepreneur in a home office, and the
job never leaves.
Another possible scenario is that you may not really like your work,
but you absolutely need the income. You have chosen a standard of
living that requires toys—computers, DVD recorders, digital cameras,
sport vehicles—and you have run up debts. Now you have no choice but
to work even harder, and the relationship suffers.
Maybe you know people, we certainly do, who have been in this
situation: Career is everything. They seem to be living to work rather
than working to live, and then suddenly their lover dies or simply leaves
the relationship. Only then do they realize what their priorities have
been and what it has really cost them. In the face of the loss of their
love, the work that was so important does not mean anything anymore—
they may not even go to work. The toys they had to have now mean
nothing……..

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